Just to throw my few cents in on this
button2cute wrote:Hello, All
I was having a discussion with a Guide and several other members last night. I believe several confusion issues are presenting itself to the members and myself. As I explaing to the Guide this is a sex site and I was corrected by the guide as an Adult Chat.
The Utherverse is truly what you make out of it
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I explained I was told this site is for sex, sex, sex, sex, and sex and it promotes sex by all the sexual contents such as the movies theaters, clubs having the swinger atomsphere with sexual rooms, and so on. The message means have sex with as many people and not to have normal every day interactions.
Many mebers says, it is a sex game and the purpose is to have as much sex as you can with as many people as you can.
So, which way is it? SEX only and no normal interactions like in reality and it is a game.
There are real people behind the avatars and this is what could actually be called a Life Simulator. There are people who are into the swinging life style and then there are others who are total committed to monogamy. The choice is yours, as is the choice to take it some where between the two extremes.
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Secondly, Why are many people snubbing other members and saying negative remarks to them? For instance, I listen to a group of VIP gentlemen cursed out basic gentlemen and turned their back on them. I told them to grow up and it is not necessary to treat anyone like crap. Why is this occurring? Is it they did not follow the rules of go have sex 24/7? In addition, what is this disrespect for the basic members, women and for themselves? Are we paying money to be trash talking to each other and to disrepect ourselves on this sexual game site? I do not understand and I would like someone to explain it to me.
There will always be in group comfort and outgroup hostilities, it might not have been that the member was basic but simply that the member was not a part of the 'group'. Either way that can be chalked up to human nature and depending on the circumstances grieving. Saddly we can say that members should not act like asshats to other members, but people still with do that to each other.
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Thirdly, why is it so funny to gang bang a female and then call her a slut, whore and etc? What is going on in here? Is this a society that men can treat women like crap and many other men join in? Hmmmm????
That could be a BDSM (humiliation) thing I wasn't there so I don't know. Most of the time, the women that I know will quickly have those men on ignore. Even if this behavior is common it is not completely pervasive through the community. Again I'll say that this is all what we make of it.
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Lastly, When you need assistance and shouting out for assistance no one can here you. If a person is walking back from a bar drunk and staggering emmm is that a signal of assistance. I do not understand why we do not have a button to signal for assistance?
there is, click on the Friends list, then click on the Search tab, click on Staff Search, then click GO you'll get a list of all available staff and volunteers. And if your lucky (not always) there will be members around you who won't mind helping you out too.
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Oh how come we do not eat, sleep, shower, tolieting, and do the esential necessity? Just wondering?
Buttons
I said this is a life simulator, but thankfully there are some things left out of real life here such as those biological necessities oh and having jobs. you can sleep if your a male by typing /sleep and as for eating try going to Full Moon Cafe they actually have food on the table.
Just my take on that all Buttons. Welcome to the Utherverse and please remember its only what you make of it.
EDITED BY MODERATOR wrote:Finally, thank you ALL for all of your support. I mean that. *hands the torch to Kris*
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