This is what solved my problem.
On the subject of Server Critical Errors, and Crashes. I'm probably the only one in RLC that didn't know this, but I'm going to share it anyway thinking there might be one more that didn't know it.
I have Windows Defender, and I broke down and finally got CC Cleaner, because everyone I know in RLC recommends it, and says it gets everything. Nope
I was sick and tired of everything not working right, so I went on a search and destroy mission and found a file that was almost 20GB attached to my C drive. This file was years of Critical Error, and Crash Reports from RLC stored on my hard drive. I had to manually remove these files, and it took a while, because most of them didn't want to go.
After I was finished removing these files I ran CC Cleaner in every form including registry repair, and it was busy.
I deleted everything Utherverse, and after clearing all Utherverse files I loaded a new one.
The long and the short is, it fixed everything that was wrong with running RLC, and tripled the FPS and improved my Latency while in RLC. The game went from loading the start page from 5 minutes to 15 seconds.
I have no idea why the Crash and Critical Error files are stored on my machine, and I don't really care, but I'm going to be going after them once a month from now on
"Built into each of us is a little calculator that can make judgments that will never appear on a piece of paper. And sometimes you know something's right, you can't prove it to anybody, or you know something's wrong. Little ethical circuit breakers you carry around inside...so I go with my instinct."
Honorable General Colin Powell
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Died: October 18, 2021, Walter Reed, Bethesda, MD
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