Originally Posted by: Loveheart_WGAF 9. We admit to ourselves the exact nature of our wrongs.
Ill be completely honest and this isnt meant to start anything regardless of how I personally feel about the OP of ANY thread.
I have yet to see anyone on these threads do that Cher is not the only one who has screwed up on this site neither am I.
Its about time people here admitted their OWN shortcomings and faults .
Its only fair after all otherwise it is just biased.
Point proven unfortunately nothing more to add to this thread.
I think that is the purpose of Skeeter's Anonymous and it doesn't mean just the one person you are talking about.
The point is that allowing negative things or people into your life causes you to act in a very negative way, that is sometimes indistinguishable from "skeeters."
Everyone screws up as you put it, it's true. The people that are taking part of this are saying that they are going to try not to be a part of it anymore.
It's not about getting back at anyone or adding to the stupid sillyness anymore. It's about taking control of your own actions and your own environment. Part of that involves not letting certain people into your life and not letting them ruin your day. Not letting them control you. That's something that each person allows or doesn't allow for themselves, and they have no one to blame but themselves.
In the sense of the forums...maybe there's that one person that really ruins your day or just ticks you off so bad that you have to respond to them. Before you know it you're as bad or worse than they are. The person you mentioned is hardly important to me in that way. I have no connection to her. I don't know her, and frankly she doesn't bother me at all. She makes me giggle a lot though. I have my own people here (hello politics section), in world, and in RL that cause me to just...not be as good of a person as I try to be. That is why I am glad that these threads exist. It helps me to see other people that feel the same way.
It's not about the person you mentioned. It's about us and our response to them. It's about who we are and how we carry ourselves. This type of thing is more internal than external. The people here had to look at themselves and how they were interacting with the world more than anything.