Forgive me if this is a stupid question, but my girlfriend and I were playing together (two girl avatars), and the game decided I was the male-- which was fine with me *^.^*-- but she wanted to change positions, and I couldn't figure out how to do that.  So in, brief, how do two female (or two male, for that matter?) avatars switch up who is 'on top'?  In our case, how do you switch who has the strap-on?

[quote author=hoppinjalapeno link=1184561368/0#1 date=1184579534]I think it depends on who invites whom for the sex.  Let her invite and click on the bed.[/quote]

That is correct. Currently the only way to switch is to do this method. Allowing to switch during the act has been suggested, so who knows, they may add that in the future.